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The Art of Crafting Perfect Wedding Invitations: A Comprehensive Guide

The Art of Crafting Perfect Wedding Invitations: A Comprehensive Guide

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Your wedding invitations are the opening act, the prelude to the grand symphony that is your special day. They set the tone, convey the style, and hint at the magic awaiting your guests. Crafting these invitations is an art, a delightful journey that reflects your love story. Here’s a comprehensive guide and checklist to ensure your wedding invitations sparkle and leave a lasting impression.

The Essentials:

1. Define Your Vision:

Have you already determined your wedding theme and style? Once you decide on a theme that resonates with your personalities (rustic, modern, traditional, whimsical, or??) and a color palette that complements your theme and overall aesthetic, you’re making great progress! Don’t forget to narrow down the tone by considering the mood you want to evoke. Is it elegant, casual, romantic, or festive?

2. Elements of the Invitation:

  • Invitation Wording: Craft your words thoughtfully, including the who, what, when, and where. Ensure clarity and warmth in the message. And make it fun and happy – you’re getting married!
  • Design Elements: Incorporate motifs, illustrations, or monograms that resonate with your theme.
  • Paper and Texture: Select high-quality paper and consider texture for a tactile experience.

3. Details Matter:

  • RSVP Information: Clearly mention the deadline and methods for RSVPs. Are you accepting them online? Are you including RSVP cards with stamped return envelopes?
  • Accommodation and Travel Info: Include details about accommodations, directions, and transportation options for out-of-town guests. (And lock in those room blocks while you’re at it!)
  • Registry Details: If you opt to include registry information, do so subtly. Though most guests are appreciative for the information so they don’t have to go searching.

The Checklist:

1. Timeline:

  • Set a Timeline: Work with your stationery team to establish a schedule for designing, proofreading, printing, and mailing the invitations. Aim to send them out at least 6-8 weeks before the wedding.

2. Guest List and Quantity:

  • Compile Your Guest List: Gather addresses and double-check for accuracy.
  • Order Sufficient Quantity: Ensure you have extras for keepsakes and unforeseen additions.

3. Design and Wording:

  • Create a Design: Work with your designer or use online tools to craft a design that aligns with your vision.
  • Wording Review: Review the text for accuracy and etiquette. Quadruple-check dates, times, and names.

4. Printing and Assembly:

  • Select Printing Method: Decide between professional printing, DIY, or digital invitations.
  • Assemble Invitations: If necessary, gather materials for assembling, such as ribbons, seals, or envelopes. Working with a stationery designer will give you access to all their tools and they can incorporate these special features into your masterpieces!

5. Postage and Mailing:

  • Weigh and Stamp: Ensure correct postage for each invitation, especially if they include additional cards or heavier elements.
  • Mail with Time to Spare: Aim to send invitations out at least two months before the wedding date. And if you’re planning a destination wedding or know that a lot of guests will be traveling to your wedding, make sure to send out the Save The Date cards with plenty of time for guests to make travel arrangements!

6. Follow-Up:

  • Track RSVPs: Keep track of responses and follow up with non-responders politely. Keep a Google Doc you can share with your planner so you know who will be joining you on your special day.
  • Final Guest Count: Use RSVPs to finalize guest counts for seating, catering, and other arrangements.

Your wedding invitations are a glimpse into the beauty and joy that await on your big day. Pour your love and personality into them, and they’ll become cherished mementos for both you and your guests. While you’re at it, check out amazing stationery designers on WedBrilliant who can support you and help kick off your wedding perfectly!

Tips for Managing Friends and Family While Keeping Everyone Happy

Planning a wedding is one of the most exciting times for engaged couples, but it can also bring about challenges and headaches when it comes to managing the expectations and opinions of friends and family. Balancing your own vision with the desires of loved ones can sometimes be tricky. However, with open communication, compromise, and a few practical strategies, you can navigate the wedding planning process while keeping everyone happy.

  1. Set Clear Boundaries: Establish open and honest communication from the beginning. Clearly communicate your vision and priorities to your loved ones. Setting boundaries will help manage expectations and avoid misunderstandings.
  2. Involve Key Individuals: Identify key individuals whose opinions are especially important to you. Involve them in specific decision-making processes, such as selecting the venue or choosing the menu. By actively seeking their input, you show that their opinions matter while still maintaining control over your overall vision.
  3. Delegate Responsibilities: Assign tasks to willing family members and friends. This not only helps alleviate your workload but also makes them feel involved and valued. Consider assigning roles such as organizing transportation, managing the guest list, or overseeing decorations.
  4. Practice Active Listening: Listen attentively to the suggestions and concerns of your loved ones. Show empathy and understanding even if you ultimately make decisions that differ from their suggestions. Being receptive and acknowledging their viewpoints can go a long way in maintaining harmony.
  5. Compromise with Grace: Wedding planning often requires compromise. Be open to alternative ideas that align with your values and budget. Seek solutions that meet the needs of both parties involved, ensuring a sense of inclusion and harmony.
  6. Prioritize Self-Care: Amidst the whirlwind of wedding planning, remember to prioritize self-care. Take breaks when needed, do things that make you happy and reduce stress, and spend quality time with your partner. A refreshed and relaxed mindset will help you navigate any challenges you face more effectively.

Don’t forget this is all temporary! And don’t forget that priority #1 is you and your partner and your happiness! But, by involving your loved ones, setting clear boundaries, and practicing open communication, you can create a wedding that reflects your unique vision while nurturing the relationships that matter most and getting that perfect happily ever after.

 

 

Wedding Planning Made Easy: 5 Ways Social Media Can Help

Leveraging support from The Knot, Zola, and WeddingWire, among others!

Social media has become an integral part of our lives, and couples preparing for their wedding can leverage its power to make the wedding planning process more enjoyable and efficient. Here are some of the best ways for couples to use social media as they prepare for their wedding:

  1. A wedding website is an excellent way to keep your guests informed about the wedding details. There are many companies that offer customizable wedding websites, including The Knot, Zola, and WeddingWire. You can use social media to share the website link and invite your guests to RSVP and leave messages.
  2. Share updates and behind-the-scenes photos of the wedding preparations on social media platforms like Instagram and Facebook. This will give your friends and family an insight into your wedding planning journey. Some couples even create a private Instagram account to share these updates exclusively with their wedding party.
  3. Pinterest is an excellent platform for wedding inspiration. You can create a board and share it with your partner, wedding planner, or bridesmaids to help you make decisions. Companies like Zola also offer an integrated feature called “Wedding Checklist” that suggests items to add to your board based on your preferences.
  4. Creating a unique wedding hashtag is a fun way to collect all the pictures and posts related to your wedding. You can use the hashtag to encourage your guests to share their pictures and memories. Websites like WeddingWire also offer a hashtag generator that suggests unique hashtags based on your names and wedding details.
  5. If some of your guests can’t attend the wedding, consider live streaming it on platforms like Facebook, Instagram, or YouTube. This will allow them to participate in your special day and share the joy with you. Some companies like The Knot also offer virtual wedding packages that include live streaming services and online coordination with vendors.

Social media can be a useful tool as you prepare for your wedding. By using it wisely and taking advantage of the services offered by companies such as The Knot, Zola, and WeddingWire, the planning process is bound to be more enjoyable and memorable.

Top Summer Wedding Trends: From Dresses to Décor!

As the summer season approaches, many brides- and grooms-to-be are finalizing their wedding plans and preparing for their big day. With the pandemic slowly winding down and life returning to a sense of normalcy, weddings are becoming more extravagant and stylish than ever before.

  1. Bold Colors: Summer is the perfect time to experiment with bold, vibrant colors that pop. This year, brides are opting for bright hues like fuchsia, coral, and royal blue to add a splash of color to their wedding day. Bold colors are making their way into wedding dresses as well, with dresses featuring colorful embroidery, beading, and appliques.
  2. Ethereal Dresses: While some brides are opting for bold colors, others are choosing ethereal, whimsical dresses that capture the essence of summer. Flowing fabrics like chiffon, tulle, and organza are popular choices, as they create a soft, romantic look that’s perfect for a summer wedding. Brides are also opting for dresses with unique detailing like floral appliques, delicate beading, and sheer lace.
  3. Nature-Inspired Décor: With the natural beauty of summer all around, many couples are opting for nature-inspired décor to complement their wedding day. Rustic touches like wooden accents, burlap table runners, and wildflowers are popular choices, as they create a warm, inviting atmosphere. Greenery is also a popular choice, with brides opting for lush, leafy arrangements in their bouquets and centerpieces.
  4. Non-Traditional Venues: As weddings become more personalized, couples are looking for non-traditional venues to make their big day stand out. Outdoor weddings are more popular than ever, with brides and grooms opting for picturesque locations like vineyards, gardens, and beaches. Rooftop venues are also becoming increasingly popular, providing stunning views of city skylines.
  5. Personalized Details: From custom favors to unique signage, couples are looking for ways to add personalized touches to their wedding day. Personalized wedding favors like monogrammed candles or customized cookies are a popular choice, as are unique signs that add a touch of whimsy to the décor. Brides and grooms are also opting for personalized touches in their wedding attire, such as custom embroidery or a unique veil.

Summer weddings are all about embracing the season and celebrating the natural beauty that surrounds us. Whether you’re planning a rustic outdoor wedding or a chic rooftop affair, incorporating these summer wedding trends will help you create a day that’s as beautiful and unique as you are.

Preserve Every Wedding Card Forever with New Digital Platform, E-Bration!

One thing you can absolutely count on as you get closer to your wedding is an outpouring of good wishes via congratulatory cards! Your friends and family want to show how excited they are for both of you by sharing heartfelt messages in sweet cards. Whether you receive these on your wedding day or they trickle in through the mail, you will want to collect and save them all. But, after a reasonable period of time after you’re married, what do you do with these wonderful sentiments captured on letters and cards? The days of gathering them up and stashing them in a shoebox never to be opened again… are over!

E-Bration is a brilliant new digital platform that preserves the memories of every card, message, photo and memory from your wedding!

The founders, Shea and Jeff Cohen, built E-Bration after their own wedding when they realized capturing these sentiments was a need shared by thousands of others. After easily creating an “event” in their account, couples can share the page with their guests who are able to send them a digital card straight through the site along with a personalized message and option for a cash gift. Unlike traditional ecard sites where the card is delivered via email and then scattered throughout your inbox with a card link that eventually expires, these cards are stored forever in the couple’s online account. Additionally, for any physical cards that are received outside of the website, the couple can digitally upload those into their account so they are saved with the same collection (or E-Bration can even upload the cards for them if they choose!).

After the wedding, couples can use E-Bration to create a personalized “Memor-E-Book” that matches each card with a photo of the guest who sent it. They will also always have access to their dashboard where all their cards, photos and messages will be hosted. In addition to the preservation of memories and sentiments, E-Bration gives their customers a platform to even send invitations and thank you cards.

We love this concept, so glad that someone finally addressed the question of “what now?!” and we love supporting fellow entrepreneurs. So, go check out E-Bration today as you plan your wedding! It’s free to join and set things up!♥️

Forget the shoeboxes for storing wedding cards!
Create a free E-Bration account to receive and store everything!

Painted Wedding Stationery Elevates Everything

Often, your guests’ first peek at what your wedding will be like and a reflection of your combined personalities, is in the save-the-dates and other wedding stationery you send out. WedBrilliant vendor CharmCat Stationery & Design creates original painted works that capture moments and personalities, and that inspire, excite, and connect people through the shared experience of art.

Products include save-the-dates, wedding invitation suites, and custom watercolor commissions including wedding venue paintings. These are not just mundane to-do’s to check off your wedding planning list, these are truly pieces of art. Owner and designer, Ashleigh Pritchard recommends that couples planning their weddings add personal touches to their stationery to show off their personality. And these one-of-a-kind pieces will likely be ones you’ll look back on with fondness, long after the wedding has come and gone!

Contact CharmCat:

charmcat.net

Staying At Home? Let’s Get Those DIY Projects Done!

Ready to tackle some wedding DIY projects at home? There are countless resources available to you for inspiration and tips to reach your wedding décor goals, but here’s a great place to start:

  • Have you firmed up your theme? Going for rustic, elegant, modern? Once you know that, the décor ideas flow from there.
  • What’s accessible to you and easy to do at home? Do you have lots of jars? How about painting some for table centerpieces? Do you have craft paper? Could you make table numbers?
  • Can you outsource DIY projects? What can your MIL-to-be help with? Does your maid of honor have incredible penmanship? Can she help writing out place cards? Or addressing invitation envelopes?
  • Post your requests on WedBrilliant.com for any other projects, receive bids and identify a vendor who can help you tackle more of these “to-do’s!”

In the meantime, here’s some more inspiration to get the creative juices flowing:

19 Clever Ways to Use Mason Jars at Your Wedding

60 DIY Wedding Decor Ideas to Wow Your Guests

23 DIY Wedding Centerpieces We Love

Pretty Pink Countryside Wedding (With Cute Aisle Signage)

Wedding Pro Wednesday: WedBrilliant

Wedding Pro Wednesday is a weekly blog post series by our friends at The Wedding Hacker, aimed at featuring amazing creatives, creators and industry experts. These wedding pros share a little about their business and passion for their craft, and some professional guidance for those planning on a slim budget. We’ve included their most recent post featuring our founder, Melissa, here!

We know very well that planning a wedding can be stressful, especially in this day and age with the internet and social media; there are a plethora of businesses and vendors to choose from for your special day and it can feel overwhelming. Facing loads of options can be daunting, but what if we told you there is an easier way to sift through vendors? And ones that offer exactly what you’re looking for and fit right with your budget?

Founder and CEO, Melissa Wilmot, found a solution to that problem and created WedBrilliant. WedBrilliant is an online marketplace for engaged couples and wedding professionals alike. This site allows couples to post their wedding needs and receive bids from a list of vendors across the nation, then couples can select the vendors that are a best match. After, clients leave wedding vendor reviews to help future engaged couples make educated decisions as they plan for their wedding.

What is your background? How did you get started with the wedding industry?

Prior to this I was actually in public relations, so I had no background in the wedding industry. WedBrilliant came out of a need that my husband I had. We were living in Portland and got married in my parents backyard in San Diego. It was so hard to find vendors in all the different categories when we were two states away. I was having my mom meet with photographers, and florists. We weren’t there to narrow down a number of vendors to meet with; it was a shot in the dark with our online research and was a lot of work. I ended up having to fly out a number of times to meet with countless people.

After that process, I saw that there was a need in the marketplace. It took years ultimately of talking to other couples and trying to figure out the best solution. Finally, I thought of an easier way to select vendors: for them to bid on parts of a wedding.

How did you come up with the name WedBrilliant?

I jotted down so many concepts about what this business would do. And after sharing my idea with others, so many people responded that this was a “brilliant idea!” So that was pretty much how the company got its name. Also, it was a fun play on words with the idea of wedding rings and their brilliance.

How did you find these vendors?

At first, it was a word of mouth effort. We had a handful sign up shortly after we launched the company. In Portland, where we’re based, there are tons of vendors and each have their own network that they would share WedBrilliant with. That’s how we started picking up some steam. We’ve also done some outreach to vendors through Pinterest ads and Facebook ads, but overall it’s been organic growth. We hope to start a huge outreach campaign in the future.

How many and what kinds of vendors do you have at WedBrilliant?

We have more than 4,000 vendors across the country! We have vendors including wedding planners, photographers, DJs, catering companies, bakers, tux rental shops, wedding dress designers, as well as hair and makeup artists. We even offer couples access to wedding officiants and premarital counseling, and food trucks. We cover all the bases!

Can you describe the process of setting up an account with WedBrilliant as a vendor or a customer looking to hire vendors?

For couples:

You can create a quick profile for free. You’ll add the key details such as location and how many guests you’re expecting. Once couples do that, you can immediately start posting requests. couples can propose their estimated budget and post their specific needs and wants. Once they hit “submit,” it goes out and our vendors in those categories get an alert. And none of it is hidden, they can go call the vendor separately and set up a time to meet, and drill down the details

For Vendors:

The process for vendors is similar to the sign up process for couples. When they create their account they will note the region they live in, their professional background, as well their work experience/portfolio. They can upload photos and reviews, and they can choose to be a member for $5 a month or $50 for the entire year. If they’re not ready to commit to paying a monthly/yearly fee, they can host a free profile page, so it’s a very low cost of way of advertising.

What are the general price ranges of these vendors? Would you say that their prices fit for all budgets?

There are vendors to suit a range of budgets. For sure!

We’ve had couples come in with a total budget of $50,000 who are more hands-off with the planning and lean on a planner to find the right vendors. We also have vendors meeting price points that range from $1000-$4000 for photography for instance, so couples can choose to go with the lowest cost option, if they want.

There is definitely a range, from the higher-end boutique vendors down to people who are starting off in their careers, and are going to offer their work for a lower price. WedBrilliant generally skews to couples who are on a budget, so I think this is a great way for people to help stay on a budget.

A common problem I hear from many couples in the process of wedding planning is that they end up interviewing so many vendors that they have trouble deciding, do you have any tips on how to narrow down your decision and finding the right vendor for you?

Deciding on the right vendor can be overwhelming. Everyone has their own social media page to explore and you can really get lost. By the very nature of what WedBrilliant does, it can help simplify this process. It is a great tool for narrowing down your options to a smaller group of vendors who meet the specific criteria that a couple is looking for.

Can you share some of your best wedding tips and tricks for couples aiming to stay within their budget?

Yes, I have a few tips and tricks that I’d love to share:

  • I think the power of using your network is huge, so I’d say don’t hesitate to tap into the network you already have and just ask. couples that tap into friends or family to source vendors can find great deals, and reduce hassles.
  • When looking at venues, be open to having your wedding on non-weekend days or at least non-Saturdays.
  • When it comes to florals, choose the flowers that are in season.
  • Lastly, when it comes to alcohol for a wedding, serve the nicer wines earlier on. Serve the cheaper wine later on because there’s a good possibility that the guests won’t even notice a difference as the rest of the night goes on!

Photo Booth Fun

We’re excited to share a little about WedBrilliant pros, Fun Fab Photo Booths & DJs. Looking for a fun, reliable provider of photo booth rentals in the Houston, College Station, Galveston, Huntsville or Bay City areas? Check them out.

They offer open air, enclosed and green screen options with the highest quality photos and guaranteed fun for your wedding guests. All of their rentals include flash drives, custom graphics, on-site attendants with great customer service, print outs for your guests, and of course fun props!

We love a good photo booth and the fun it creates! Check out Fun Fab Photo Booths & DJs, and head over to post your own wedding needs for WedBrilliant vendors to submit customized bids on!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

We Polled Our DJs: How much do they charge?

We launched WedBrilliant with the express purpose of helping our happily engaged couples find great wedding vendors and get bids on all your wedding needs. But, if you’re starting the wedding planning process and not sure how much budget to allocate to various components of your wedding, we are here to help you out. We polled our talented DJs around the nation and are sharing the average amount they charge for weddings… Now that you know this info, head over to request bids for your own wedding!

How much do you charge couples for basic wedding DJ services for approximately 3-6 hours?